OP here. Just wanna vent about how fucked up relationships have gotten.
I’m not trying to sound like a gentelman, but I honestly think our relationship is way healthier than most of my peers’. My feelings are almost maternal as half my own happiness comes just from seeing her happy.
Doesn’t matter how we actually are though. I’ll still get called a groomer if some find out. And maybe this a controversial opinion for this site, but grooming isn't good. By grooming I mean a deliberate manipulation to create dependency by making someone feel small.
I’m trying to make my gf more confident, smarter, more independent. But none of that matters. It’s exhausting trying to argue this without peoples bias.